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I Gather Because I Want Supper Every Night

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For a long time, I thought travel would be the thing that changed everything. And it did, but not in the way I expected.

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We started a family young, built a business, and stayed close to home. I learned about the world through museums, books, restaurants, and my own kitchen. When I finally traveled to Italy in 2019, after the restaurant had found its footing and our children were grown, it felt like stepping into a life I had been quietly preparing for all along.

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Then the world closed. So, I waited. And by waiting, I worked. I poured myself back into the restaurant, believing that if the doors opened again, I would be ready.

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Travel, for me, has always meant more than movement. My goals are simple and demanding all at once: food, wine, art, architecture, and landscape. To understand a place, you have to meet it where it is. You don’t ask for things your way. You let yourself be changed.

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What I’ve learned, at the table and in life, is that perfection isn’t what people remember. They remember how they felt. Some of my regulars have told me, kindly, that they don’t come just for the food. They come for the experience. The warmth. The feeling of being cared for.

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That realization changed everything.

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I grew up in a house where there was always room for another plate. We cooked, cleaned up, played cards, stayed at the table for hours. That rhythm shaped me more than any technique ever could.

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Now, after years of building, breaking, rebuilding, and after health scares, losses, and a necessary reckoning with balance, I understand why I do this.

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I want supper every night.
I want to gather people.
I want to make something honest and warm.
I want to talk over coffee when the plates are empty.

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So I gather.
I gather.
I gather.
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